Halo. Jd mau share kalo udah dari tahun lalu aku naksir berat sama miss canada 2016 Siera Barchael. Sebelum ikut miss universe mewakili canada , dia pernah ikut miss supranational(sama kayak ajang kecantikan dunia cuma beda lisensi sama miss universe, beda tujuan dan beda yg punya tp sama sama tingkat dunia) dan dia 1st Runner up yang artinya juara 2. 2 tahun kemudian dia menang mewakili canada untuk ke miss universe, badanya aduhai cantik, wajahnya pun cantik, ga kalah sama miss negara lain, tapi saat mau karantina miss universe, dia jadi gendut, paling gendut diantara semua kontestan, yang bikin heran lagi dia lolos ke 6 besar miss universe. Dengan body yang big size. Nah... berhubung tema miss universe tahun 2017 ada confidently beautiful ternyata siera ini punya pandangam sendiri tentang confidently beautiful, yang aku suka banget. Sebagai berikut:
Few times ago, i had countless people telling me to lose weight and go to gym or fitness , i almost feel like an outsider while i listened to people telling me to eat lean protein, and when i get hungry overnight icant eat anything , i was told to work on my legs because they were "too big" , narrow my waist , i didnt find any of this shocking because i heard similiar things for years, and it was ingrained in my mind to be accepted But for the first time i heard i was able to hear and see how utterly radiculous it all was. What was wrong with my body?
Why im trying to fit this image of what others have told me is beautiful ? Why cant my body celebrate of they way it is? im strong, healthy, fit like who iam. why should i change who iam for the acceptance of what other belive to be beautiful? i was finally able to love my self for who i was , and i was not going to go gown the dark path of self deprivation and depreciaton that i had be down so many times before. Beauty, happiness, acceptance , begin within and that is often the most difficult place to find it, once we love ourself for who we are we can totally transform what it means to be happy .
Masih banyak quotesnya yang lain yang dia post di insta, yahhhhhh i really LOVE IT.
Banyak sekarang cewek diet matimatian supaya dibilang kurus, intinya dia ingin tubuhnya seperti apa yang lingkunganya mau, padahal Body DIVERSITY itu ada, tiap tubuh punya ukuranya sendiri buat berkembang, orang gemuk belum tentu ga sehat juga, bisa jd dia fitness. Org kurus oun juga belum tentu sehat bisa jd emg badanya menghendaki untuk kurus.
Kebayang ga sih kalo udh cape cape diet trus trnyata org bilang kita ga kurus padahal motivasi kita kurus adalah mereka, sakit ga sih? Ya sakit. Karena kita pengen cantik sesuai pandangan orang. Padahal cantik itu ga butuh pengakuan.
Aku tinggi 165cm, berat 56kg. Kadang bisa 58, ideal? Enggak. Gendut? Mungkin. Ati ati lho klo gendut ntar ga sehat lho? Siapa bilang.
Aku makan makanan yang sehat, tiap malam selalu olahraga, dan tiap aku ngaca aku selalu bersyukur sama diriku dri ujung kepala sampe kaki, iam beautiful of who im, im confidently beautiful.
Gimana rasanya punya badan yg lebih berisi dibanding temen temen yg lain? I was so shocking about the question, lalu siera ini jawab : gimana rasanya bisa percaya sama diri sendiri? Gimana rasanya bs punya tubuh yang sehat dan membiarkan tubuh itu relaks? Gimana rasanya bisa jd cantik tnp perlu pengakuan org? Gimana rasanya bs menginspirasi org org muda supaya bisa me redifine bahwa cantik ga melulu tentang size? Rasanya Amazing.
'I had reclaim my body was my own in doing so, i understood as a woman, i had a greater purpose to REDEFINE BEAUTY.'
Stop diet hanya karena pengen diliat cantik atau kurus! Stop mendengarkan kata org lain dan bersedih, stop benci sama tubuh sendiri. You are beautiful, love yourself for who you are :)